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Friday, October 14, 2016

那一條短訊

“其實時間管理也是我一直在修的一門課,我們一起來學習。

活動以後心情還會迴蕩在活動時的自己,沒辦法專心讀書,其實都是很正常的。這證明你在活動的時候有感動有體會,而不是“過了就算了”。我自己養成了一個習慣,就是活動以後會把心情寫下來(以往用部落格,現在沒時間所以一般上是以whatsapp來跟其他伙伴分享)。學會把感受掏空出來與人分享,不止是個抒發的管道,往後讀回的時候,說不定是挽回您出發心的那根稻草。

分配時間我沒有特別有訣竅,只要沒有重大課業/考試撞期,很多時候我都會把握因緣先選擇參加慈济活動。對我來說慈济活動不是一個選擇,而是一個使命。很多人說時間管理是一種取捨,對我來說我取捨的,不是“課業”or“慈济”,而是“課業慈济”or“消遣時間”。就減少了非常多上facebook和Instagram的時間吧,你看我最近都沒怎麼放照片,facebook更久沒有去動了。記得要用心當下,上課的時候專心上課,做慈济的時候專心做慈济。這樣時間就是被maximised的使用,時間會好像變得比較多,呵呵。

加油呀,醫護生做慈济不簡單。相信你的課業也是會越來越忙,真的很希望你不要有退轉心,可以和我一起做慈青裡少數的醫護生哈哈。很多時候還需要一股傻勁,別人觉得不可能,我們也要堅定信念及方向。我們可以互相鼓勵 😊”

這是一條短訊,是我非常敬佩的一位夥伴、朋友,所對我說的。她是醫學系的學生,她是我看過對自己的課業充滿熱忱又非常努力的學生,她也是一名慈青哦,也非常用心,每一件事有她,就不必擔心了。偷偷告訴您,她算是我的“偶像”,嘻嘻,要從她身上學習到的東西還有很多,也期許我能像她一樣,把課業照顧好的同時,也要用心投入慈濟。

*最近,不知是不是看書的時間少了,自己的文筆也變差了。要努力努力了哦💪🏼

沒有跨越不了的障礙,只有永不放棄的自己。

感恩哦 ❤️

By,
引瀅。
Wednesday, September 7, 2016

祝福更好的自己

有时候我会郁闷,
只因自己内心的矛盾。

我是个急性子,做事一定要尽快完成,而且要做好、好不代表完美。
我做决定也一样,快、恨,但不准。
我常常后悔自己快速的决定,没有想清楚就做的决定。
我不喜欢这样的我,就因这样造成生活上很多的困扰,经常后悔。

21岁的那一天,快到了,可我却还没准备成为一名让人称羡的女人。
曾经的我答应自己,有一天,我会脱下帆布鞋、穿上高跟鞋,我会扎起散漫的头发,有着别人没有的修养。
眼看这一天越来越近,自己就离梦想越来越远。
醒醒吧!不要再让自己埋没在懒散的生活里,这不是我。
还记得以前那股坚持不懈的自己吗?让她回来吧!
就在即将到来的那一天许愿吧,愿自己能够努力成为有着好修养的人,在慈济的道路上,别忘初衷心!就算以后的生活会很忙,也别忘记当时加入慈济的那一份心。

离21岁的日子近了,也离大二开学时间近了。
那“职场”会是自己很好磨练的地方,要记得控制自己的习气,要沉得住气,再累也要记得父母永远比你更累,不要抱怨,要努力加油,不辜负大家对我的期望。

祝福更好的自己!

Year 2 is gonna be a challenging year, don't easily give up and don't be afraid of failure as you will get better one day. 

大家一起加油💪🏼

Love,
Yinying. ❤️
Monday, May 23, 2016

话

每一样物品皆有自己的形状;更何况是人,每个人都有自己存有的个性。

碰到比较急促的朋友呢,自己要付出多点的耐心。不是每个人都能配合自己,去演出自己想要扮演的角色。难免,会碰到一些言语上比较直接的朋友,自己要学习不要那么认真去看待且接受批评。

自己最近面对的是比较急促的朋友,自己虽然了解自己的个性,就是碰到急促的情况时,会常常失去理智,会说错话,因为想要快速回复别人的话,反而弄巧成拙。而对于别人,他可能会认为我不是真心在回答他的问题,或是觉得我很傻,总回答不想关的是事。

谈吐之间,也尽量不说负能量的东西,哪有人不对生活上的琐碎事感到抱怨的呢?只是他们不把它挂在嘴边,所以让人看来快活多了。让自己也来学习一下,和别人说话尽可能说好话。

说话是一门学问,怎样才能把它说得婉转些?都需要很多工夫,有时候可能觉得话说的直接点,别人比较听得懂,但间接伤害他的心,是不是更不好啊?人文、礼仪,都是要纳入考量的。很感恩,蜜雪学姐最近送我的一本书关于人文礼仪教养的书,从中更让我醒觉自己美中不足的地方。

话多,不如话少,话少不如话好。记得哦!

改变,已经说了很多次,就像师公上人说的一样,如果只是口说改变,那永远都改不了,要时刻自我提醒,要把当下不理智的行为忍耐起来。慈济四神汤,感恩、知足、善解、包容,要学起来哦。

宝宝能的💪🏼



Friday, April 8, 2016

忆

“会有那么一天, 你会脱掉你爱的帆布鞋, 穿上漂亮的高跟鞋, 优雅的走在路上。 你会盘起发髻,梳上刘海画着精致的妆容, 徘徊在各种社交场合 ,不再像以前那样梳着马尾, 留着齐眉刘海哈哈的傻笑, 你会成为父母引以为傲的女儿。 会有那么一天, 你也可以很坚强 ,坚强到可以为你爱的人撑起一片天空。”

 忆,
两年前,
曾经告诉自己的话。
忆,
三年前,
终于找回自己的我。
忆,
五年前,
那可以很坚强的自己。
忆,
六年前,
承诺过会让父母为我而骄傲。
忆,
七年前,
来不及长大的你。


光阴似箭,
快得像沙子从我手指中滑过。

今天的我,
又是全新的自己。

那一段段的回忆,
又让我重新找回自己。

别忘了,
我不是抱着自己的梦想而已,
还带着大家对我的期愿。

加油了,
来路方长,
别担心路途的遥远,
脚步先落实现在。

前脚走,
后脚放。

引滢,加油。❤️



你可以!





                              
Saturday, February 27, 2016

Dental life - ONE

Third week, second semester, first year of the dental world.

I was lost at that moment when I had a glance on the result. I'm neither sad nor happy, I'm questioning myself, isn't this result under my expectations? Why were I looking so lost with a little disappointment? Maybe because there was expectations. Although my expectations wasn't too high, but deeply in my mind, I expected it to be better. A bit better with that a bit of effort. A bit. Nahhh~~ Forget about it, it's just a small exam compared to my professional examinations that account for up to 70% of the overall percentage. Anyhow, grades are just numbers and success will not be defined by these numbers. What makes it important is the journey where hand skills are being practiced towards perfection and being patient is the hidden secret of it. For example, teeth carved are not just to get our practicals done but to train our patience, without patience, you might just break the root from the base or it might be rejected from the lecturers. Patience, pls be with me for another 4 more years. 

Moreover, I'm really grateful for having so many great people beside me. Along with my dental course, I have a bunch of friends that treat me like their siblings. (They would deny that when they see this, haha) They show no estrangement towards me and they are very generous on what they have especially their notes. Also, I have a nice "buddy" ( I have this "buddy system" in my university where we have to look up for a senior to be our "buddy" and he or she will give some info or advices about our courses) that give me her notes and some useful advices that make my life a lot easier. Really appreciate that. ❤️

Years later, I hope I would read back this post and always grateful for what I'm having and not forgetting the reason behind of the carreer I chose today. 

Anyway, nothing can be done without working it, start doing and stop talking.

By, 
Yinying 💕



                      

Friday, January 1, 2016

01012016

First blog post of 2016.

I'm turning 21 years old this year.
I should say it's time to be more sensible, wiser and mature.
But, these words I have been mentioned it almost every first day of the year.
So, this year I would make it a bit different.
A year which I hope to develop my true own personalities and also be myself.
As Chinese people always said, 21 years old is the turning point to be a real adult and should be granted a gold or silver key as a gift. 
But for me, I just hope for a better me, which I'm more towards to be a lady with all the characteristics.
Being serious that I could just complete my work perfectly and being busy that I have no time for gossiping and criticizing others.
In studies wise, I hope I could stop procrastinating and be more attentive during class. 
Also, be more occupied that negativity cannot intrude my mind easily.

2016, another new year and do things with no regrets.




❤️,
Yinying.